Kāma is one of the vices ( Kama , Krodha, Lobha, Moha, Mada, Matsarya) and also one of the four aims of life (Dharma, Artha, Kama , Moksha). Can someone explain why and how it is so and also is there a difference between Kāma as a purusharth and as a vice? I haven't found any scriptures which explicitly forbid this. So my questions are: Is oral sex involving male genital organ that is totally consensual with the said person's wife a sin? Is oral sex Kama doesn't need to be eliminated completely. It needs to be controlled, as per the Dharma, to be followed by a householder is a must for societal order, and slowly, and slowly through penance (tapas) in the form of vows, sacrifices, charity, fasts, etc. it need to be overcome. Even, so then Kama is difficult to vanquish or eliminate completely, for an average person, for kama (desires) is the root cause of material existence. KAMA卡玛还是当年上学时候朋友非常喜欢安利给我的品牌,是这个品牌的很早期会员了,还记得那时候衣服的风格酷酷的,整体西部风格很统一特色也很鲜明。那时候过年能穿一套下来可能得好几百得衣服觉得很了不得。 后来偶然看到KAMA是在北京一家门店的特卖,以100块不到的价格买到了一件让我觉得迄今为止设计最好的二合一秋冬外套。好在哪里呢,下面慢慢说,图片 ...